chore: bump operator-rs to 0.62.0

[NickLarsenNZ]

Description

• BREAKING Removed legacy node selector on roleGroups.
• Bump operator-rs to 0.62.0 and Rust toolchain to 1.75.0
• Use new label builders.
• Code style changes

Definition of Done Checklist

• Not all of these items are applicable to all PRs, the author should update this template to only leave the boxes in that are relevant
• Please make sure all these things are done and tick the boxes

# Author
- [ ] Changes are OpenShift compatible
- [ ] CRD changes approved
- [ ] CRD documentation for all fields, following the [style guide](https://docs.stackable.tech/home/nightly/contributor/style-guide).
- [ ] Helm chart can be installed and deployed operator works
- [ ] Integration tests passed (for non trivial changes)
- [ ] Changes need to be "offline" compatible

# Reviewer
- [ ] Code contains useful comments
- [ ] (Integration-)Test cases added
- [ ] Documentation added or updated. Follows the [style guide](https://docs.stackable.tech/home/nightly/contributor/style-guide).
- [ ] Changelog updated
- [ ] Cargo.toml only contains references to git tags (not specific commits or branches)

# Acceptance
- [ ] Feature Tracker has been updated
- [ ] Proper release label has been added

[sbernauer]

Sorry for bringing the bad news but there are some merge conflicts with #457

[NickLarsenNZ]

Sorry for bringing the bad news but there are some merge conflicts with #457

Story of my day @sbernauer... will fix and request approval

[NickLarsenNZ]

Oops, missed this and ended up doing it in parallel.. dunno if there's anything relevant to grab from it but https://gist.github.com/nightkr/da4eb77f001dfb59a85bc43cbff39634

@nightkr maybe in a new PR? I'd like to get this in now so others can build off of it as the merge conflicts are getting tricky to resolve.

[Techassi]

Great work, really like how you cleaned up the errors and the different builders.

[NickLarsenNZ]

Merging, even though kuttl tests aren't working yet. We will fix forward.