[branch-2.0](partial update) report error directly if missing rowsets during doing alignment when flushing memtable due to compaction

[bobhan1]

Proposed changes

related pr: #28468, #28676
report error directly if we find that situation in #28468 happens

Further comments

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[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.86% (8003/21136)
Line Coverage: 29.52% (64969/220053)
Region Coverage: 29.02% (33452/115274)
Branch Coverage: 24.89% (17172/68980)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/3181b9183fec3a7efdd18067c3378cef0eee45e5_3181b9183fec3a7efdd18067c3378cef0eee45e5/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 49.64 seconds
stream load tsv: 577 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 123 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 66 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17167434650 Bytes

[bobhan1]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.83% (7995/21136)
Line Coverage: 29.50% (64917/220053)
Region Coverage: 28.98% (33409/115274)
Branch Coverage: 24.85% (17141/68980)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/8822a4ee7b0cbeb663a9719f9f4356ba09588000_8822a4ee7b0cbeb663a9719f9f4356ba09588000/report/index.html

[bobhan1]

run clickbench

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 48.54 seconds
stream load tsv: 577 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 123 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 66 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.5 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 338K ops/s
storage size: 17162619947 Bytes

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[zhannngchen]

LGTM