chore(deps): Fix apache arrow dependency, update to v18.1.0

[mstrandboge]

Summary

• Move to github.com/apache/arrow-go over github.com/apache/arrow/go as this is the new home for the Go library.
• Updates to v18.1.0

Checklist

• No AI generated code was used in this PR

Related issues

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[telegraf-tiger]

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⚠️ This pull request increases the Telegraf binary size by 1.64 % for linux amd64 (new size: 288.6 MB, nightly size 284.0 MB)

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Artifact URLs

DEB	RPM	TAR GZ	ZIP
amd64.deb	aarch64.rpm	darwin_amd64.tar.gz	windows_amd64.zip
arm64.deb	armel.rpm	darwin_arm64.tar.gz	windows_arm64.zip
armel.deb	armv6hl.rpm	freebsd_amd64.tar.gz	windows_i386.zip
armhf.deb	i386.rpm	freebsd_armv7.tar.gz
i386.deb	ppc64le.rpm	freebsd_i386.tar.gz
mips.deb	riscv64.rpm	linux_amd64.tar.gz
mipsel.deb	s390x.rpm	linux_arm64.tar.gz
ppc64el.deb	x86_64.rpm	linux_armel.tar.gz
riscv64.deb		linux_armhf.tar.gz
s390x.deb		linux_i386.tar.gz
		linux_mips.tar.gz
		linux_mipsel.tar.gz
		linux_ppc64le.tar.gz
		linux_riscv64.tar.gz
		linux_s390x.tar.gz

[srebhan]

Thanks @DStrand1!