Optimize InList implementation with native types rather than ScalarValue

[alamb]

The basic idea is that instead of using ScalarValue which has runtime dispatch overhead, we could use native rust types, like HashSet<u32>, etc. I think that could be a couple times faster.

Originally posted by @Dandandan in #2156 (comment)

[Dandandan]

In addition to higher memory usage and dispatching overhead there are two extra sources of overhead:

• Having to convert all values from array items to ScalarValue
• Hashing a Scalarvalue is slower than hashing a native type.