[C++][Compute] Implement streaming version for SelectK

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PR #11019 implements SelectKUnstable.

A streaming version of it using a Heap based solution seems to be the right direction as it was discussed here: 

https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/11019#issuecomment-914419100 

Reporter: Alexander Ocsa / @aocsa

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-13970. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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