[C++] Optimize performance for aggregate min/max compute kernels

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1. Use BitBlockCounter to speedup the performance for typical 0.01% null-able data.
2. Enable AVX compiler auto vectorize for no-nulls on int types. Float/Double use fmin/fmax to handle NaN which can't be vectorize by compiler.

Reporter: Frank Du / @JianXinD
Assignee: Frank Du / @JianXinD

PRs and other links:

• GitHub Pull Request #7871

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Antoine Pitrou / @pitrou:
Issue resolved by pull request 7871
#7871